Sisters, I'm still hearing from so many of you who are still with your married man, still complaining that he won't leave his wife and how much pain that it's causing you, yet - you are still staying? Come on girls, use me as an example to look at what you are doing (or rather, not doing) with your life. Don't accept a mediocre life by being second best in a relationship! I know I couldn't do it again, not now I have been set free mentally by making the commitment to find a single guy and real love.
Use me as an example and as your inspiration to move on. As you know, after my affair with Gordon hit the media I felt so bad that I had fallen off the wagon, again, and I decided to try and change my life from then on. I am transforming and trying to self-improve myself every day. The transition is empowering and exhausting at the same time. I can't wait til I meet Mr. Right though, and I will know immediately as I have been waiting for him all my life!
It seems there are some decent single guys out there you know, and I'm finding it so much fun to actually date a guy without having to 'worry what time he has to be home!!' I'm totally not used to it. This week I have met a Cancer Doctor and a Vampire (If only I could roll them both into one, LOL) so watch this space.....as it's gonna happen :-)
On another note, check out this story that was in the Fabulous Magazine last Sunday. Fabulous is the Sunday Magazine of the News of the World Newspaper and it really IS fabulous. Here is a mistress who is happy dating her married men, and since you know that I like to keep it real and even handed on my blog, I have to share this story with you too. It looks like she is in charge of her emotions and is living the life she wants to. Thats all I recommend to anyone. Live the life that suits your soul. I wasn't anymore, which is exactly why I had to go straight. You will see my cheating tips at the end of the article too.
Send me your dating stories sisters of the mistresshood, and GET OUT there and look for a single man!!! You will wonder what took you so long. I know I did!