Friday, November 30, 2007

"Tis the Season to be Jolly!"

I wasn't sure what I would write about in my blog today, but it hit me (quite literally) last night at the supermarket, as I cruised the aisles, for a meal-for one dinner, and a bottle of the good stuff, to wash it down with!

"Lo and behold" an advent calendar fell off the shelf and landed promptly at my feet - which made me realize that, not only is tomorrow the first day of December, but, more importantly, that I haven't bought an advent calendar in years - due to the fact that I have always lived as "the other woman."  And, as any "OW" worth her salts, will tell you, we don't tend to buy in to the typical Christmas traditions, as it is too painful to deal with.  Too painful to have to contend with the fact that the man you love, is preparing to "deck the halls" with his wife and family, while you could be sitting at home on your todd, pining for him and waiting for his secret phone calls  (NOTE TO MISTRESSES: check out chapter 11 in my book, called "Surviving Christmas as a Mistress," and other holidays, to learn more!) 

So, now that I am no longer the other woman, I can embrace such, simple things, on the run up to Christmas.  Hence, I went ahead and bought the calendar, and in fact, I'm already looking forward to opening that little door tomorrow to see what surprise lies in there, waiting for me (and I do hope it's a picture of a HOT naked guy!).  Well hello? I said I was "reformed," not perfect!

Jingle jangle, and kisses from Sarah J. x 

Monday, November 26, 2007

"Doing Your Due Diligence!"

Sisters, a quick holiday update for you. As your leader, I have to remind you that whilst it,"tis the season to be jolly," - it doesn't mean you can be gullible or complacent where men are concerned! 

There is a new survey out, which shows that this time of year is the most prevalent time for cheating! All those office Christmas parties along with the cold dark winter nights, are a perfect setting for a cheating married man, (aka MM) to prey on you!


But it's not JUST the married men we should be aware of; – the single ones are at it too!  That’s why I encourage ALL women read my book, 'Having an Affair?' – whatever their status in the relationship game, because we ALL have to band together, and be one step ahead of the lies these men constantly use to get us in to the sack!

 *An Important Festive Note to Remember Ladies:  "The only thing your man should be stuffing this season, is the turkey, and YOU!"


Kisses, Sarah J. x