Thank goodness April is here, and spring is blooming. The perfect time to flush the wrong men out of our lives, and welcome in the new. I'm looking hard for a good one in the month of April I can tell you. I'll keep you posted of any hot dates - and I will try to make them with single guys only :-)
I write today, in reply to a comment I had, from one of my adorable anonymous mistresses, yesterday - wanting to know more about her MM's motivations of trying to keep in touch with her (even after she exposed him to his wife in, very, pointed emails.) Now, as I always tell you sisters, it is very simple: the MM wants it all his own way for as long as possible. If you bust him to his wife (as this particular mistress did, and as I did with mine too) you have to expect he will stay with his long suffering other half. It is a given. However, as I always tell you too, he WILL come back and you do need to be ready with your M.O. when he appears.
Whether it be by msn, text, a mutual friend, or whatever - when he comes back - after his boring marriage has been patched up for a few months, what will you do? In my opinion, you at least have to see him for what he is. He did choose to be with his wife and family, not you, so make a mental note of that and act accordingly. Whatever he said you meant to him (yawn!) it obviously was not enough for him to make the life changes he promised you.
Only you will know how to exact your next move. Whether it be revenge or romance - do let me know.....
Stay strong and beautiful, and never let your MM get you down!
Kisses, Sarah J. x