The MAJOR tell-tale sign of whether you are a mistress or not?
Well, you’re reading this, aren’t you?
The simple fact that you’ve landed on this website - and also my www.mistressesanonymous.com site - and are reading about the recovery program, is already tipping the balance towards a "Mistress Diagnosis." Meaning that if you have to ask, then the chances are good that you're already living as the Other Woman to a man who is just using you to keep his marriage ticking along. “Normal” women don’t wonder if they are mistresses. “Normal” women don’t let themselves settle for a second-hand relationship with an unavailable man, nor do they need a support group to help them survive it. Simply questioning yourself, and finally realizing how desperately unhappy you are, is a strong indication that you a mistress (albeit perhaps one in denial.) So sister, you have come to the right place.
Casual Mistress versus Mistress in despair.
Mistresses who are not in love are usually in control of their 'situations,' as they tend to have an agenda as big, if not bigger, as the cheating married man. And the casual mistress can usually take it or leave it when she sees him, and, live without him (emotionally) quite easily when she doesn't see him. However, the mistress in love on the other hand, has no control over her emotions and has a problem when the MM is not around. Her life spirals out of control. In other words, true mistresses have a problem with living without the drama, the co-dependancy, and the idea of being in competition to win a man's love!! THAT IS AN ILLNESS AND MEANS YOU NEED MA. Without a program of recovery, they will tend to be “restless, irritable, and discontent,” and even if they DO get out of the affair, they will still need to continue MA meetings as part of their life, to make sure to never tread that path again by falling off the wagon, but also not to bring any of her past issues into potential new and healthy relationships.
So ask yourself Ladies: Do you tend to have problems when you meet a married man who wants an affair with you, can you say no, or do you have a paralyzing fear when you imagine your life without him? If you’re leaning towards the second answer more than the first, then chances are good that you’re a mistress who needs urgent help. If you’ve decided that is you, please explore this website further, or contact me directly via my email, firstname.lastname@example.org, and I will respond within 48 hours.
Sisters. the the ONLY requirement for full MA membership is a desire to stop sleeping with another woman's husband. Is this you??
Peace and hugs
Sarah J. xo