Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Dr Phil Show Today!

Try to catch me on the Dr Phil Show today, 4pm PST, CBS. The topic is, "Inside Infidelity."

For any of you who would like to buy my book just go to my website and you can download it instantly as an e-book, privately and on demand, so you don't have to wait when you need help instantly!!

Also, come to my Mistresses Anonymous chatroom too. The link is on my home page at www.havinganaffairthebook.com

Peace
Sarah J. x

11 comments:

Andrea said...

I'm glad I found your blog. I don't watch Dr. Phil every day but I wanted to catch this episode because I was interested in what you were saying. I was SHOCKED (though I don't know why) by how in-denial so many of these women are! You were 100% right. I think your words got misconstrued and they thought you were condoning infidelity, when you weren't. That guy who was on was pretty accurate too, for the most part. What really made me realize that these women were either uneducated or in denial was when Robin stood up and told that guy that he was "ruined" because what woman would want him now after seeing that show. Is she nuts? That guy was 100% right. Women love assholes. He's probably going to have MORE dates after that show. Dr. Phil said that women want bad boys for a "weekend." But he's wrong. Women respond to men who are assholes. It's not right but it's true. And they claim to want a nice guy but they don't!
Congrats on the book, I am sorry to see that it is no longer in print at Amazon. I am going to buy it soon, from your website.
Well I seem to be rambling. I just felt bad that so many angry housewives seemed to yelling at you when you were spot-on. I just wanted you to know that there is at least one woman out there who knows the truth. And you were right about everything.

kasper said...

hi. .. I am a man and I saw the show. .. two things. .. marriage is one thing sex is another. ... wifes in a marriage pretty much if not stepping up the the plate will get cheated on. . Men are dogs yes but my point is sex is part of our life even married or not. .. so sex will always be part of us and if it is with our wifes or other women it don't matter. .. men just need the release the pressure or everybody will be in tomorrows paper. ..

Gretchen said...

I truly wish you would have had the opportunity to complete a thought long enough to state that you do not condone having affairs and that you are here to help women get out of the affairs and destructive patterns they have found themselves caught up in. It seemed that each time you tried to speak to that point, you were interrupted.

I hope that you will get the opportunity to clarify where you are coming from, because I, for one, know that your heart is pure.

Anonymous said...

I am so upset....I DVR'd the show because I had to work and only got to see the last 10 minutes. Now I have to wait for it to run again.
I am almost done reading your book...hoping to have the strength to dump the MM.
Thank you for all you do.

sarah J. Symonds said...

Dear Andrea, Kasper, Gretchen and Anonymous. Thank you all so much for your comments. Andrea I agree with you about the denial stuff!! Kasper - shoc kingly I agree with you too, and Gretchen - we'll get there. Plenty more show opps to come. Re Anonymous..hmm - can't help you with the DVR problem. Last time they re ran the show a week later on channel 9 - so that would make it tomorrow/monday. Let me know. Sarah J x

Larry S said...

I left this comment on Dr. Phils site. Don't lose any sleep over those women. They are in denial...

Larry S says:
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November 25, 2009 at 8:31 pm

The married women on your show were all too quick to attack the “other woman”. They failed to acknowledge or conveniently ignore the fact that both married parties are responsible. There is some breakdown in communications, intimacy or some other problem which are too numerous to mention. The other woman is just a pawn in this game. They should place responsibility where it belongs which is with the husband and the wife. You got that Malvene? If you want to direct the anger on someone you should look at that cheating husband of yours. Maybe they should shut up and listen to the other woman to find out what is going on with the husbands. Obviously they are not listening to the husbands either. That is how that other woman got in in the first place….

Anonymous said...

hi~
i am a married woman who has been seeing a married man for almost 7 years..i don't condone what we are doing. i am just commenting here because i am desperately lonely as the mm has grown more distant as job changes(maybe), obligations(maybe), healthy marriage(maybe) has been his excuse for less and less time for me...i want a certain amount of attention and he seems upset that i do. he says he wants me to just be happy to enjoy the time he can give..i think he is treating me like someone who is obligated to the compromise...and i suppose it is how i act...i am still with him, aren't i? anyway, i am sure he is probably just no longer interested in the affair with me....but i keep expecting him to just say it...neither of us want to leave our spouses...so there is no disappointments about that...i guess i want someone to tell me the truth..any takers?

sarah J. Symonds said...

Dear wife having an affair of 7 years,,,GET out!!! Come to the mistresses anonymous support group meeting for more advice and support. Link to that is on the home page of this website

Stay strong
Sarah J x

sarah J. Symonds said...

Dear wife having an affair of 7 years,,,GET out!!! Come to the mistresses anonymous support group meeting for more advice and support. Link to that is on the home page of this website

Stay strong
Sarah J x

Anonymous said...

sarah...i am finally out of the 7 year relationship...for good! as of new years eve...it was my resolution...i have always kept my resolutions!...thank you for replying to my comment..ppl dont understand the need for support and an ear...there is nobody to talk to...thanks!

Anonymous said...

I'd like to say that I didn't watch the show but being a person on both sides of the fence in my life. That the misstress us an away for a man to have fun and get away from life. Women are trying to find a feeling of love missing when they cheat but a man can not love a married woman nor respect her.

Marriage is work, sex, fun, stressful, and when crisis come we're suppose to be the others shoulder. When trust is broken from a marriage it's something you can't get back but worst of all you are putting your life in danger because lots of people will kill out there because of infidelity. My question is why do it? It's a temporary solution to someone's problem and It'S SELFISH!! To the married people doing this how do you know your spouse isn't too? Really ever hear that song who's making love to your lady why your out making love. My point is if your spouse doesn't care what your doing to see the distance put between you two maybe you should be wondering why. Because lots of time both parties are sleeping around now you don't have a marriage you have a finance partner get a roommate!