Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Lights, Camera, Action.....

Well here I am out in sunny California, still heeding my mission to spread the word and exposing the depth of lies men tell when they decide to cheat on their wives.  

I did a very interesting interview today for a show called "Mom Logic" - and I spoke directly to wives, letting them know what some men, some husbands, were capable of, and alerting them to some of the signs they should look for if they suspect their hubbie is cheating on them. 

Thats my job.  To empower the 'other woman' to get out of her affair with her MM, as well as to wake up wives to the fact that so many men are cheating and the types of stories we, as the mistress, hear on a daily basis.

Rock on sisters.  Lets make it as hard as possible for these guys to cheat, and to hurt us in the process, as so many of you still write to tell me they are!

Live from Hollywood, this is Sarah J. x
(P.S. SISTERS - I DO APOLOGIZE FOR POSTING THE SAME REPLY COMMENT TO ONE OF THE SISTERS OF THE MISTRESSHOOD FIVE TIMES BELOW...IT WAS A TECHNICAL ERROR, OR...PERHAPS I WAS JUST SO FRUSTRATED BY HER MM AND WANT YOU ALL TO LEARN FROM HER STORY...)

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

My MM's wife found out about us via an email. MM was under house arrest for a few months. Obviously he contacted me again and then I contacted MM's wife b/c I was upset about something he had said to me at the time. Selfish I know. MM was again under house arrest for a year or so, but she didn't leave him, she threatened the first time but didn't follow through the second time. I still see MM and he says that if his wife ever found out he'd be dead. He's not allowed to go out with the guys, she checks in on him constantly, etc. MM continues to cheat on her. She's oblivious. Why do you think she hasn't kicked him out yet? They have a child, they both make a decent income... I think she also has a self-esteem issue. I think he knows that she won't follow through so thats why he continues to do what he is doing.

sarah symonds said...

Hi Anon
A very similar situation happened to me too. But, as I say in the last chapter of my book, the MM's ALWAYS come back to their mistress, if she will have him - even when they are under house arrest they still find a way! When this situation happened to me though, I completely lost all respect for the guy, and began to dislike him immensely for being such a coward.

The writing is on the wall here, and it is insulting to you and her, since he does not value or love YOU enough to leave his wife for you (even though she clearly knows/knew - so he had the perfect opportunity if he'd wanted to) - yet he also doesn't have the balls to be straight with her, and give you up. She thinks he is working on their marriage - and he is deceiving her. I call this type of MM a true bastard!! He has no respect for her, and why should he, since she does accept his cheating on her. He also acts like a pussy by being told he 'cant go out with the boys' etc.. Pathetic!

Yes she will have low self esteem issues I am sure, plus she does not want her life to end, nor her position to change (I don't know how successful he is nor how good her lifestyle is) but most wives always accept when their husband cheat. Some even welcome it, as it takes the pressure of them.

My advice would be to value yourself, even if his wife doesn't value herself, and find a guy who will put you first and not deceive you. I would not believe a WORD he is telling you about his situation, and trust me, if his marriage really was bad, he would have been out of it like a shot by now.

Hope this helps, and hope that ALL other mistresses will read this and take note from their leader.

Good luck
Sarah J x

sarah symonds said...

Hi Anon
A very similar situation happened to me too. But, as I say in the last chapter of my book, the MM's ALWAYS come back to their mistress, if she will have him - even when they are under house arrest they still find a way! When this situation happened to me though, I completely lost all respect for the guy, and began to dislike him immensely for being such a coward.

The writing is on the wall here, and it is insulting to you and her, since he does not value or love YOU enough to leave his wife for you (even though she clearly knows/knew - so he had the perfect opportunity if he'd wanted to) - yet he also doesn't have the balls to be straight with her, and give you up. She thinks he is working on their marriage - and he is deceiving her. I call this type of MM a true bastard!! He has no respect for her, and why should he, since she does accept his cheating on her. He also acts like a pussy by being told he 'cant go out with the boys' etc.. Pathetic!

Yes she will have low self esteem issues I am sure, plus she does not want her life to end, nor her position to change (I don't know how successful he is nor how good her lifestyle is) but most wives always accept when their husband cheat. Some even welcome it, as it takes the pressure of them.

My advice would be to value yourself, even if his wife doesn't value herself, and find a guy who will put you first and not deceive you. I would not believe a WORD he is telling you about his situation, and trust me, if his marriage really was bad, he would have been out of it like a shot by now.

Hope this helps, and hope that ALL other mistresses will read this and take note from their leader.

Good luck
Sarah J x

sarah symonds said...

Hi Anon
A very similar situation happened to me too. But, as I say in the last chapter of my book, the MM's ALWAYS come back to their mistress, if she will have him - even when they are under house arrest they still find a way! When this situation happened to me though, I completely lost all respect for the guy, and began to dislike him immensely for being such a coward.

The writing is on the wall here, and it is insulting to you and her, since he does not value or love YOU enough to leave his wife for you (even though she clearly knows/knew - so he had the perfect opportunity if he'd wanted to) - yet he also doesn't have the balls to be straight with her, and give you up. She thinks he is working on their marriage - and he is deceiving her. I call this type of MM a true bastard!! He has no respect for her, and why should he, since she does accept his cheating on her. He also acts like a pussy by being told he 'cant go out with the boys' etc.. Pathetic!

Yes she will have low self esteem issues I am sure, plus she does not want her life to end, nor her position to change (I don't know how successful he is nor how good her lifestyle is) but most wives always accept when their husband cheat. Some even welcome it, as it takes the pressure of them.

My advice would be to value yourself, even if his wife doesn't value herself, and find a guy who will put you first and not deceive you. I would not believe a WORD he is telling you about his situation, and trust me, if his marriage really was bad, he would have been out of it like a shot by now.

Hope this helps, and hope that ALL other mistresses will read this and take note from their leader.

Good luck
Sarah J x

sarah symonds said...

Hi Anon
A very similar situation happened to me too. But, as I say in the last chapter of my book, the MM's ALWAYS come back to their mistress, if she will have him - even when they are under house arrest they still find a way! When this situation happened to me though, I completely lost all respect for the guy, and began to dislike him immensely for being such a coward.

The writing is on the wall here, and it is insulting to you and her, since he does not value or love YOU enough to leave his wife for you (even though she clearly knows/knew - so he had the perfect opportunity if he'd wanted to) - yet he also doesn't have the balls to be straight with her, and give you up. She thinks he is working on their marriage - and he is deceiving her. I call this type of MM a true bastard!! He has no respect for her, and why should he, since she does accept his cheating on her. He also acts like a pussy by being told he 'cant go out with the boys' etc.. Pathetic!

Yes she will have low self esteem issues I am sure, plus she does not want her life to end, nor her position to change (I don't know how successful he is nor how good her lifestyle is) but most wives always accept when their husband cheat. Some even welcome it, as it takes the pressure of them.

My advice would be to value yourself, even if his wife doesn't value herself, and find a guy who will put you first and not deceive you. I would not believe a WORD he is telling you about his situation, and trust me, if his marriage really was bad, he would have been out of it like a shot by now.

Hope this helps, and hope that ALL other mistresses will read this and take note from their leader.

Good luck
Sarah J x

sarah symonds said...

Hi Anon
A very similar situation happened to me too. But, as I say in the last chapter of my book, the MM's ALWAYS come back to their mistress, if she will have him - even when they are under house arrest they still find a way! When this situation happened to me though, I completely lost all respect for the guy, and began to dislike him immensely for being such a coward.

The writing is on the wall here, and it is insulting to you and her, since he does not value or love YOU enough to leave his wife for you (even though she clearly knows/knew - so he had the perfect opportunity if he'd wanted to) - yet he also doesn't have the balls to be straight with her, and give you up. She thinks he is working on their marriage - and he is deceiving her. I call this type of MM a true bastard!! He has no respect for her, and why should he, since she does accept his cheating on her. He also acts like a pussy by being told he 'cant go out with the boys' etc.. Pathetic!

Yes she will have low self esteem issues I am sure, plus she does not want her life to end, nor her position to change (I don't know how successful he is nor how good her lifestyle is) but most wives always accept when their husband cheat. Some even welcome it, as it takes the pressure of them.

My advice would be to value yourself, even if his wife doesn't value herself, and find a guy who will put you first and not deceive you. I would not believe a WORD he is telling you about his situation, and trust me, if his marriage really was bad, he would have been out of it like a shot by now.

Hope this helps, and hope that ALL other mistresses will read this and take note from their leader.

Good luck
Sarah J x