Longevity

For any of you who read the story about me in my local newspaper this weekend, entitled, "Jetset Mistress writes Bestselling Book" - (www.southwalesargus.co.uk) - although there was a photo of my parents and I in the article, the story omitted to mention the fact that they had just celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary this week (which has to make you wonder where I came from with my infidelity issues then eh?...)

Congratulations Jean and Mike Symonds - and thanks for putting up with a daughter like me!!

Kisses

Sarah J. x

Out in the Open...

Well well well, good ole Tilda Swinton, my hero.  I am sure you have all heard her story in the press recently.  How she is traveling the world with that handsome young hunk of a chunk, and how her husband lets her get on with it as he stays home to mind the kids.  What a wonderful agreement they have all reached - and who are we to judge?

(quite how she was able to bag her hottie is another question though, I mean, did you SEE what she was wearing at the Bafta Awards? hmmm.....)

Kisses

Sarah J.

LOVE day!

Hello my little rose petals.  Before we go any further, let me raise my crystal flute, full of pink champagne, to all my readers in a toast, whomever you may be with today (and even if it is with someone else's parter!! :-)

Due to recently relocating to the UK for a while, in conjunction with my exciting new position of, "Spokeswoman for ashleymadison.com and now, ashleymadison.co.uk," I am currently between affairs, so to speak.  But I am interviewing candidates for the role of my new MM, and will let you know how I get on.  You all know my criteria by now, rich, old, and lots of fun!!!

I'm hoping all of you are being loved up today - and if not, why not?  For anyone suffering the acute physical, and or, emotional rejection in their relationship or marriage -  which so many of you write to tell me about - you do know you have options now with the Ashley Madison on line dating service catering to attached people who want to meet other like-minded adults.  You no longer have to be ashamed about having sexual and emotional needs beyond your current relationship.  Who needs that? Life is too damn short as it is...

And, in my experience, having a romantic affair can actually allow a person to have their needs met, while maintaining their otherwise healthy and happy relationship with their partner.

So, until tomorrow, have yourselves a great day - and try to have sex with somebody (even if it is your partner) to mark the occasion.  And ladies, I hope that you will be so 'wined and dined' tonight, that you will be reading tomorrow's installment of the 'pillow talk blog' with a huge hangover (and some nice trinkets of course :-).  

Peace. (hic...)

Sarah J. x

Anti- Valentines Day....

So many of you tell me you are not looking forward to Valentines Day.  You say that, if you are alone, you are depressed because you have no love interest and nobody to "spoil you," and many of you tell me, that although you have a partner, or a married lover, you do not get the attention from him or her that you desire.  I ask you though, what is enough??

I have no worries about Valentines Day, as whether I receive anything or not it doesn't matter to me, as I will be buying myself some roses, and definitely some champagne, to celebrate all I have achieved this year.  I believe that if you are content with what you have, you will always end up having more.  If you always concentrate on what you dont have, you will never ever have enough in life....

(Jon - email me to sarah@havinganaffairthebook.com, if you are still in London?  I'm intrigued...)

"Peace and Profits"

Sarah J. x

  

Notes from the "Big Apple"

Hello Sisters,

Thank you for all of your continued emails on your situations with your "MMs," asking for advice:- all of your stories are so different, but always remember that he is the one having it all not you.  Wise up to that and you will be ok...

I write this blog from New York, where I celebrated my birthday yesterday.  

With regards to the angry wife who sent me a comment to my blog, in relation to the article that appeared in the Sunday Express Newspaper in the UK yesterday, two things: 1). I am proud of you for actually divorcing your husband when you found he was having an affair - so many wives don't, but 2). The anger you show toward me, and "other women" would be better directed at your husband, or rather, ex-husband.

Thats all for today, keep the faith

more from L.A. tomorrow.

Princess' Day!

Hello my little blogettes - I am sorry for not writing my blog every day; It had been one of my New Year's Resolutions, but between my diary, my "Mistresses Anonymous Support Group," and a novel I am writing, I hardly get any time to spare - (and definitely NO time for an affair these days, phew - I don't know where I ever found the time or energy!)

You will see the title of my blog today is "Princess' Day," as when I was traveling in Colorado over Christmas, I was told a story, by a very happily married wife.  Her story made an impact on me.   She and her husband told me that every Sunday is the day he spoils his wife, lets call her Patty for the sake of this story.  He gushed about how he will do "anything Patty wishes, and give Patty anything her heart desires, all day on Sundays"  (typical treatment involved running her a bath, bringing her breakfast in bed, etc.)   So much so, that they had officially named Sunday as "Princess' Day," in their house!

I have no regal title, and no husband to spoil me, but I have to say that I have adopted the cause myself, and today, Sunday, I treated myself like a Princess!!  Today was all about me - and I ended a wonderfully indulgent day with dinner and a movie.  I saw the "Great Debaters" - it was totally brilliant, and a MUST SEE!  Not only because it is produced by my favorite person, Oprah - but because it's message is all about, not quitting what you believe in, and not caring what other people think, but following your dreams and knowing you are as equal, and as good as, anybody else in the world.  I think this movie would empower and inspire, anyone who watches it to want to be better!  - and for the record, I though Denzil did some of the best acting I have ever seen him do. 

Ok well, must shoot now, as I only have a short time left of Princess' Day - must go and finish indulging myself.  Leave you with this little thought though - does this spoiling situation mean that EVERY DAY should be called "Princes Day" where men are concerned? considering how much we pamper them and look after their every need? (especially our MM's!) - and secondly, if I ever did get married, I would like to think the poor guy would spoil me every day, not just on Sundays!   

Send me your comments.  I get them all, but for some reason they don't get posted.  Keep sending though, and I will get that fixed.  In the meantime, feel free to email me to sarah@havinganaffairthebook.com, that way you are guaranteed a reply!

Peace and profits...

"Princess Sarah"

A Fresh New year...

Hello to all my wonderful "anonymous adulterers" everywhere - this is your year!

Happy 2008, and I hope you, have all, made some wise decisions about the coming 12 months - I would love to hear from you, as to what stages of an affair you are in, and how you plan to proceed with it.  I am here to help!

Email me anonymously to sarah@havinganaffairthebook.com

Keep the faith

Mistress Sarah x