tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post5994566362150651510..comments2023-03-12T08:40:19.226-07:00Comments on "Pillow Talk" with Sarah J. Symonds: Narcissism And The Cheating Married Man.Sarah J. Symondshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15827955026666958002noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-37075161306224824772013-06-18T04:42:44.797-07:002013-06-18T04:42:44.797-07:00My name is lisa, from Montreal ,Canada. I never be...My name is lisa, from Montreal ,Canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in Febuary this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR. CHECK he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 6 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend(now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. templeoflove1@yahoo.com<br />hopehttp://templeoflove1.webs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-58128478743804876542013-06-18T04:35:01.396-07:002013-06-18T04:35:01.396-07:00hello my name is Alex i am frm Washington have a s...<br /> hello my name is Alex i am frm Washington have a story similar to your friend Clara. my wife of almost 3 years said the exact same thing, that she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me, and after 10 days, moved out. We have a son together and that complicates things further. Luckily, I haven't been hysterical and freaking out like I normally would. I know that will only push her further away. my days of not seeing her it feels like absolute hell. she came back to get her stuff and to talk to me and she said she would still be there for me. I don't know if it was out of being truly genuine or because of our son. I truly love this woman, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her. and the biological factor is so true. we've had our ups and downs but when it came down to it, we always kissed and made up. I honestly don't know what happened, as far i was concerned i would do everything to bring her back to me.along the line i was happy for brigs which introduce me to a spell caster This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it templeoflove1@yahoo.com This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it men this temple is magical,good and sweet truly she is back to me she inside right now i was just ask to follow up some steps by the temple and 6 days later Gina come begin that she dint know what came over her,i accept her quickly for she is my hearth viewers in this blog should help me thank the grate temple.<br />hopehttp://templeoflove1.webs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-9036130019675511142013-06-09T19:35:40.378-07:002013-06-09T19:35:40.378-07:00I was a mistress for about five years. I must disa...I was a mistress for about five years. I must disagree with the comment "Mistresses only want to tell the wives once they find out the MM never wanted them". Mistresses tell the wives after so much heart and time has been put into these manipulative MM. Once we're fed up with all the lies, and the MM is not meeting demands he need to make to keep the mistress happy. Yes all mistresses will tell. Matter of fact the MM I was involved with chased me for years. Once he got that opportunity to have me all to himself, he seemed as if he was lost. Actually, the only way I got out of this relationship was to tell the wife, and not him anymore. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-81756371491511005122013-05-31T07:35:33.008-07:002013-05-31T07:35:33.008-07:00My "N" is leaving me for his co-worker, ...<br />My "N" is leaving me for his co-worker, and i was told that he was leaving due to me not fulfilling my wifely duties. I have been constantly blamed for everything that went wrong in our marriage. I have known him for 14 years and married to him for almost 2 years. He tells his mistress that he loves her and can't wait to start a new family with her after only knowing this person for 9 months. Help!!! Im glad that i finally got enough courage to file divorce paperwork, because i know i cant change him. I hope the mistress gets everything that she deserves, since she pursued my husband knowing that he is married man. You are not alone ladies!!!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-61632220187712239802013-04-13T20:27:56.104-07:002013-04-13T20:27:56.104-07:00Mistresses only want to tell the wives when they r...Mistresses only want to tell the wives when they realize the MM never wanted them. Do the wives a favor and keep the affair to yourselves because be honest, you are only telling her to benefit you,not her. You didn't care how the wife felt when you sleep with her husband so why care now?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-53893307373780834142013-04-13T14:59:26.149-07:002013-04-13T14:59:26.149-07:00Now I agree with that annonymous married man comme...Now I agree with that annonymous married man comment. He told these mistresses the truth and they CHOSE to stay. He didn't hold a gun to their heads. That fantasy relationship is yall doing NOT his so when u mistresses wanna blame someone for ur "situation" , remember..BLAME YOURSELVES!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-50825009057971624612013-03-13T06:48:18.340-07:002013-03-13T06:48:18.340-07:00Sarah,
I have a single male friend who is in an a...Sarah,<br /><br />I have a single male friend who is in an affair with a married woman. They claim they are not having sex, as she says that would be "crossing the line" so they secretly meet, text all day, and she even sleeps over at his house occaisionally...just sleep and cuddle LOL<br /><br />Anyway, he claims they are both deeply in love....her husband is not meeting her emotional and physical needs, etc., but, after reading your article, I think SHE may be a narcissist here. She exhibits all the characteristics you talked about...she is completely manipulkating him. He is getting a bit frustrated that they are not having sex, once she realized that she's now pouring on the waterworks and saying she wants to be closer to him, that she is considering sex to make sure he's happy.<br /><br />So my question is...can women be narcissists also? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-7753999732851110092013-03-05T08:37:50.378-08:002013-03-05T08:37:50.378-08:00I was the other woman who told his wife about his ...I was the other woman who told his wife about his cheating on her, because he wouldnt leave me alone, all she said is what do you want me to do about it, he had already told her a lie sayin that I was annoying him, she acted an spoke the way he did when he would manipulate an belittle me, I couldnt believe her manner, they deserve each other me thinks...<br />just from me who has learnt a big lesson... amAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-85177366301128008972013-02-18T05:00:27.973-08:002013-02-18T05:00:27.973-08:00I was the other woman and wives, you are right. We...I was the other woman and wives, you are right. We deserve what we get and we are the door matts, not you.<br />I was so stupid to let a careless one night dirty secret become anything more. I was excited by the secrecy (how immature and selfish) by his constant attention and strong pursuit which is so hard to resist...especially when you are alone and far away from home.<br />No one wins in these situations and even if he does leave his wife (which he did after he was caught) you can never feel like a decent woman again. My guilt and shame for breaking up a family is profound. I never thought I would be part of something so immoral. <br />Ladies, if you are attracted to a married man it's because you are missing something within yourself. That is a sign to pause and realize you have a decision to make. Honour yourself and get on track or learn the hard way like I did. <br />It's an ugly road.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-63747678423684596082013-02-14T03:41:43.517-08:002013-02-14T03:41:43.517-08:00I have been in love, for 4 yrs, with a man you jus...I have been in love, for 4 yrs, with a man you just described down to a tea. These men first start with how miserable they are with their wives and how there is no intemicay in the marriage. They come across as needing help and love. So as caring women we feel we can give that. But they give that bull to evry woman they meet, it means nothing to them to lure you in, to feel you trust them and make you feel loved by them, until the nxt woman comes along and he' s off again. Leaving you behind feeeling the rejection, the hurt and the pain. I left my long term partner for such a man, uprooted my kids because i loved him so much. Now im just left with the emotional turmoil. I am at the stage were I should tell his wife, he shouldnt get away with hurting so many women, and i say many women because i know there have been many others. Its women he works with because he can minipulate them, he promises promtion and they fall for it. So much evil in men like that!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-87950443855284365512013-01-30T11:05:42.295-08:002013-01-30T11:05:42.295-08:003 plus yrs. into my "relationship" w/a m...3 plus yrs. into my "relationship" w/a married narc man. I've known what he's been up to for 2 yrs. now. I'm a little hard-headed and stong willed, so I have been "forcing" his hand. Confronting him, calling him on his lies. For me, I want him to admit he's been "using" me. Yeah, yeah, not going to happen. <br /><br />It's obvious to me that it is so, so important to him for him to maintain "face", importance & stance (read as "great guy") to his family, friends, community, employer & co-workers. I have so much hard eveidence of his extra activites. E-mails on sex sites, etc. What would happen if I sent copies of this activity to his family, friends co-workers? Oh and lets not forget about the other woman on the sex sites.<br /><br />I know, revenge is non-productive. But my thoughts are....the guy will never ever stop unless he is outed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-17283420335189696212013-01-22T04:42:59.343-08:002013-01-22T04:42:59.343-08:00I'm the mistress too. But I am way too smarter...I'm the mistress too. But I am way too smarter than his wife. I found photos of various women in his phone and 2 he took with a sweet young thing. Btw, he's 46 and I'm 30. I also screen through his messages and found he had sex or oral sex with a 20 something...and it was the girl who initiated to provide the blow job. For my case, we went through a proper courtship although he's married. But to my horror.... he still try his luck to hit on women. Girl in the photo with him isn't the one I know he slept with.... I label him as a womanizer. Though I confronted him; he denied having any sexual relationship with this girl n cook up a story to say she's down with cancer. I am still with him. How can I break this chain... he's not only having affair with me. He sleeping with a sweet young thing but cont to hit on other women. He don't support me anyway. The only time we meet is just for sex. I'm very disappointed with myself for seeing him through and refused to accept the truth and cont being with him. In a fight he did briefly said something like why should I get jealous and all men are horny by nature. In a way, I reckon he admitted his crimes. I begin to envy his wife. Her ignorance cont to lead her living in a bliss.. I never wanna them to break up but at least I'm the last he's gonna have...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-89915094254550131442013-01-10T23:37:45.796-08:002013-01-10T23:37:45.796-08:00Awesome post. I’ve been browsing online more than ...Awesome post. I’ve been browsing online more than three hours today, but I by no means found any fascinating article like yours.<br /><a href="http://www.cheating-partners.org" title="" rel="nofollow">Unfaithful Partners</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10569984141721698587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-39268131586089600632012-12-22T19:30:34.308-08:002012-12-22T19:30:34.308-08:00Hello. I'm the mistress. Well technically he w...Hello. I'm the mistress. Well technically he was my boyfriend and he cheated. We broke up, and he's seeing someone else. He's lured me back in 4 times (4 brief affairs, about 2 months at a time). I love him so much and all I want to do is make him happy. I want to take care of him. It's embarrassing. So I've left him again, and my question is: do I tell the girlfriend? She's caught us involved twice now, and will most certainly leave him if he's found out. Your post was so honest, it's the story of my life. Your advice is much appreciated. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-31506673319738423462012-12-09T14:09:37.166-08:002012-12-09T14:09:37.166-08:00Do you know what my problem is with these comments...Do you know what my problem is with these comments? I truly believe if you have an affair with a married man then you deserve everything you get. Where's the sisterhood? Women go around complaining about men being liars and cheats but then knowingly sleep with married men. I am married to a narcissist and after him pursuing me, marrying me and putting me on a pedestal he was cheating after one year of marriage and showed his truly foul narcissistic self, selfish, emotionally abusive, indifferent and cruel. If it wasn't or women like you making it easy for them then these men couldn't cheat ( not saying the men are innocent). But it seems ridiculous to complain about these men and how decent they seemed in the beginning when they are cheating on their wives!!!! What is decent about that? And as for those of you who say their wives are doormats etc....who told you that? The cheating lying man you are with haha. My husband told me all of his ex's are psycho bitches.... But who is the common denominator..... He is! Wake up and learn to say no to married men!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-17204686108990679622012-11-30T12:47:45.459-08:002012-11-30T12:47:45.459-08:00I can't believe all of the women that stay wit...I can't believe all of the women that stay with married men for years. He is not going to leave his wife for you......I was in a relationship that was consummated once, and that was enough for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-59962317699919385482012-11-30T04:49:43.198-08:002012-11-30T04:49:43.198-08:00The affair I had with, let's call him Bill sta...The affair I had with, let's call him Bill started on emails at work. He was someone I knew from a previous job. One day he came down to my cube to say hi, and the next thing I knew, I was receiving emails from him, and he gave me his work mobile phone number and told me to text him over the weekend, which I did not. The emails progressed to sexual innuendos which I encouraged, because I liked the attention. I left the job, and we shared a passionate kiss which lead to some sexual im's. When I returned to the job months later he was cold, and avoided me. Months later we slept together once. After that he treated me terribly. Oh, but he did take me out to lunch once to apologize, but I belive it was to make him feel better about himself. Yes, he is a narcissist, classic case of narcissistic personality disorder. I have the DSM-IV, as I have two Master degrees in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University. I don't talk to him anymore. Ladies, this is a man who said he lives for his kids, and that spouses are replaceable. I wonder how his wife would feel about that comment. I pity her, becasue I do believe I am not the only woman he has done this with. I am fine emotionally, and I won't make the same mistake twice. I advise you to steer clear from these men. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-23644512603952832922012-09-27T11:15:47.093-07:002012-09-27T11:15:47.093-07:00The only way to deal with it is to smile, get an i...The only way to deal with it is to smile, get an imaginary immunity pass to his drama, to the jealous feelings, to the pain and insecurity, play his game and enjoy it! Spoil him, laugh and go on with your life. It can be done, just realize you are above it all and he is 'limited'. Remember that immunity pass! It means you don't ever have to feel any pain and you can let go at anytime as well as enjoy the good moments. No bad feelings, no anger, no loneliness, no neediness. That is all just you allowing manipulation in. WHo you are in love with is not that guy, but a projection of him. He is in fact much less amazing than you think and not worth it to worry about. Above all, don't let him manipulate you! Just be happy at all times and he will have no grip on you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-64303380830824473922012-09-27T11:12:07.677-07:002012-09-27T11:12:07.677-07:00The only way to deal with it is to smile, get an i...The only way to deal with it is to smile, get an imaginary immunity pass to his drama, to the jealous feelings, to the pain and insecurity, play his game and enjoy it! Spoil him, laugh and go on with your life. It can be done, just realize you are above it all and he is 'limited'. Remember that immunity pass! It means you don't ever have to feel any pain and you can let go at anytime as well as enjoy the good moments. No bad feelings, no anger, no loneliness, no neediness. That is all just you allowing manipulation in. WHo you are in love with is not that guy, but a projection of him. He is in fact much less amazing than you think and not worth it to worry about. Above all, don't let him manipulate you! Just be happy at all times and he will have no grip on you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-55716052944457237982012-09-21T01:04:39.853-07:002012-09-21T01:04:39.853-07:00
I wanted to give you an update on my situation. O...<br />I wanted to give you an update on my situation. On september14, 2011 I requested a binding love spell be cast on my boyfriend. His eyes roamed to any woman that passed us and it made me feel horrible. I am happy to report that a 2days after I requested the spell he proposed to me. We have been married for months now, we are expecting our first child in Nov. 2012 and he no longer has eyes for any other woman. I was greatly impressed with the fast results and the personal attention I was shown during the casting and beyond. Dr. Ekaka. you are really powerful ....i will advice you guys to contact him if you need any help.. ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-9209817667881575932012-08-31T14:54:13.414-07:002012-08-31T14:54:13.414-07:00you guys are too much! I love it, love it, love it...you guys are too much! I love it, love it, love it... think its possible for a guy to be on the other end and have the narcisssus be a female, his wife? maybe, right? anyhow, thanks for the stimulating article and comments. so glad i found you.<br />jakefinn@gmail.com or you know i wrote a book about her:<br />fifty-boy.blogspot.comFifty-Boyhttp://fifty-boy.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-51167979879157043842012-08-24T10:14:36.078-07:002012-08-24T10:14:36.078-07:00Would it be possible to obtain access to your site...Would it be possible to obtain access to your site http://malevolent-men.com? I feel like I may be the co-worker you're talking about. The affair I've been having is over but I know he is now with a different co-worker.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-45699252224161989012012-08-24T06:39:39.603-07:002012-08-24T06:39:39.603-07:00I would very much like to access the blog you ment...I would very much like to access the blog you mentioned: malevolent-men.com. I am the co-worker you describe - after 9 years and a move across the country I finally got out. Would it be possible to receive access? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-23452273898229281732012-08-24T06:35:30.236-07:002012-08-24T06:35:30.236-07:00I tried to access your blog at http://malevolent-m...I tried to access your blog at http://malevolent-men.com but it is protected. It sounds like you are describing me - the co-worker. After 9 years I finally got out. I would very much like to read your blog if possible. I want to contact the wife and let her know that her suspicions were correct and she is not crazy or hysterical or imagining things. I'm so ashamed of myself, I don't know if I'll ever get over this self-loathing. I moved across the country to get away from him and he lured me back with promises and lies. Lots of promises and lies.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470959016347624607.post-29590026018195355612012-08-18T22:50:12.216-07:002012-08-18T22:50:12.216-07:00I want tohandle similar situation. Problem is I am...I want tohandle similar situation. Problem is I am emotionally attached and also want to teach him a lesson. Before I end this. Any suggestions?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com